This is what I said to General Synod today:
Chair, Members of Synod.
Gosh, aren’t there a lot of people interested in what we have to say today.
You would think we were about to turn the world upside down.
For all the talking I seem to have done about it over the last few years, my love life truly isn’t that interesting. I’d like to believe that when I leave here today, it will return to being a matter for my parents, asking why I haven’t yet provided them with a daughter-in-law; my friends, nudging me towards the terrifying prospect of Internet dating; and, maybe, someday, when I’ve found the perfect woman, for the Director of Music at my cathedral as he tries to persuade me that the trumpets from the Verdi Requiem do not a wedding processional make.
But today — maybe we are trying to turn the world upside down.
And if we want to build the kingdom of heaven here on Earth, maybe that is what the world needs.
The question of our place in the world — our responsibility to the Anglican Communion — is one that has come up over and over again, the whole way through this process. The question of repercussions that any decision we might make today might have on our sister provinces.
Synod, the Anglican Communion is a very broad church indeed and it works in a very wide world.
As hands are wrung over the fate of the Anglican Communion, we so often forget that there are many people beyond these borders who cheering us on, praying for us to shine a light into places on Earth where our LGBT brethren and their allies too live and, often, die under the darkness of systems that oppress and persecute.
We do a disservice to our brothers and sisters around the Anglican Communion when we presume that they are of one mind any more than we are of one mind, and we do them a disservice when we presume that by keeping our mouths shut we are keeping them safe.
We can surely do better than that.
I want to be part of a Church where everyone can flourish. I want to be part of a world where everyone can flourish, too.
My learned friend from Aberdeen and Orkney feels that what we are doing today has broken the Church, but, with the greatest of respect, I feel that the amended Canon 31 can make the Church more whole than it has ever been.
Today, we have the opportunity to say that this is a church where there is room for everyone, where all are welcome, and where there is enough and more than enough love to encircle all of God’s children.
To get here — it’s been a long road.
I am so proud to have walked it with so many of you.
To have walked it with my brothers and sisters who agree with me. To have walked it with my sisters and brothers who profoundly disagree with me. This has been a journey. In the words of our marriage liturgy, a journey in which we have grown and been transformed. I believe that is true for every single one of us. And I believe that in the wording of this Canon, there is room for us all to flourish.
The thing I am most proud of today is that at this moment, here we are, all of us, hand in hand, walking together.
If we do this, the Church will become a more welcoming and more inclusive place for people like me. I can go to my cathedral on Sunday and say to members of my congregation, “Yes.” And should I find that perfect person, I will be able to say to her, “Yes.” I want you to not understimate the importance of that.
But today is about so much more than that.
Because today is also a chance to show all of this to all the world.
To say, you can do it like this. You can find enough room for everyone. You can do anything, just as long as you remember to love one another.
And love is love is love is love is love.
And God is love.
And love will turn the world upside down.